Just an update on what I am using.
I have tried Raspup and EasyOS version for the PI 4
They both need some tweaking and have issues.
All the issues I have found solutions for.
I posted what I did in each respective OS topic.
I settled on using Raspup, mainly because seems more software can be found to work on it.
Menu->Setup has several different ways to get software.
The two different ways to run Package Manager both work, but the NG GUI one, seems to be in need of some more tweaking.
I posted topics in the Raspbian Buster section of forum about tweaks I did and added features.
The things you do not tell us, are usually the clue to fixing the problem.
When I was a kid, I wanted to be older.
This is not what I expected 