I finally got some time to look at the thread suggested by Clarity and followed his instructions there. I started the boot and edited the first line as instructed. 'kernal /vmlinuz pmedia-cd pfix-fsck, fsckp' was all that was there. I added 'psave=sda2:/' to the end, hit enter and then 'b' to continue the boot up. Surprisingly it opened without the opening questions and seemed to operate just fine. Upon shut down there were no questions to set up a save file, just a normal shut down.
I thought the problem was solved but on the next boot I was back to the same problem so the fix apparently was for one session only. For the 3rd boot I again clicking 'e' to edit the first line. There was no 'psave=sda2:/' there so I redid the edit like previously and again it booted without the opening and save questions.
Just to be sure I did a fresh download of the iso file and created a new bootable USB, emptied the optical drive. Booting from the USB resulted in the same problem as before, opening and save questions. I booted again and checked where I had edited before, there was no 'psave=sda2:/' so my original download (and creating a DVD and USB) was good.
Before starting the procedure in this post I deleted all but one dpupbw64save.2fs file just to avoid confusion.
For the record my boot order is #1, optical disc, #2, USB and #3, boot from hard drive (which gets Windows). As I am sure you are all well aware, if it doesn't see anything in the optical disc drive it moves on to #2, USB and if nothing there on to #3 which goes to a "repair" mode as my Windows is messed up and I haven't used it in 10 years. I should just delete Windows entirely. I also have a year old Windows laptop that I can use if I really need Windows.