Please have only one question or issue in a topic you start.
It turns into a big mess, when you have posts about two different issues.
So, please edit the first post, it's subject, delete the 2nd question, and make a new topic out of it.
To answer the 1st subject of the topic.
Look here:
https://distro.ibiblio.org/puppylinux/p ... es-noarch/
There is also some other icon themes you may not know about.
The latest stuff is also here:
https://github.com/puppylinux-woof-CE/w ... ges-noarch
Keep in mind that icon theme packages sometimes do not have all icons that are needed.
The larger in size, the icon theme package, the more different icons it will have.
This is another good place to get icon themes:
https://smokey01.com/icon-sets/
Just click on a displayed icon theme to download the pet package of it.
The things you do not tell us, are usually the clue to fixing the problem.
When I was a kid, I wanted to be older.
This is not what I expected 