tammi806 wrote: Tue Feb 18, 2025 2:48 am
Just because I say trust no one doesn't mean I live in fear.
You are way over exaggerating.
I don't expect you to understand.
@tammi806 :-
Actually, I think I CAN understand.
Yes, my response probably was OTT. Sorry about that! At a very basic level, one's personal definition of "trust" has to come down to what you, as an individual, feel comfortable with. And that's going to vary from one person to another.
Social media - for example - is to ME a prime example. Anybody who is ANYBODY in those circles appears to have 1000s of purely on-line "friends; people they've never met, yet who seem to hang on their every word. Me, I find that creepy as hell. Am I the only one, or does anybody else take the same view?
I've seen it myself, in day-to-day life. Inter-communications on the phone, especially; there's too many people who go out of their way to try and be an "instant friend", wanting to call you by your first name especially when they've never even spoken to you until 2 minutes ago. Call me a cynical old so-and-so, but such behaviour always puts me in "alert mode". I don't like "false familiarity". What are they really after? What IS it they want?
(You want MY friendship, you need to earn it. I don't just hand it out like a freebie to every Tom, Dick & Harry.) 
No; the direction in which modern society is evolving is NOT exactly conducive to trust. It's like simple business transactions; years ago, you'd contract for a job to be done. You'd get an estimate; the tradesman would come and do whatever needed doing, they'd bill you, and you'd pay at the end when you were satisfied with the work.
Now, you can't buy or get anything done until you pay up front, before you've even had the 'service' or received the goods. Nobody trusts anyone anymore - modern on-line business methods, and the constant selfish on-line criminal activity to try and relieve people of their hard-earnt income are definitely contributory factors here - so.....I think I understand where you're coming from in principle, if not in actuality. (No way I could, since I don't know your personal circumstances).
I confess, I don't LIKE the directions in which society is heading... There again, it's entirely possible I've got hold of completely the wrong end of the stick! 
(*shrug...*)
Mike. 