yea we are getting a bit of track.
i should re-iterate that upon further testing only the fossapup was connecting and remembering my profile .xenial64 for some reason is now not.
Okay i will pursue this beast and perform the suggested information tools.I concur that if this laptop were not 64bit capable then indeed the 64bit os would not boot.
focalpup which incidentally has a 5-series kernel connects just fine..so this leads me to believe that the kernel is not the issue.