wiak wrote: Sat Jan 11, 2025 1:57 pm
This thread is intended to be a discussion about forum structure so why are the same as usual divisive individuals keep bringing my name into their argument for division? Concentrate on the situation, not on your dislike of me or any other individual.
I think this discussion has been very straightforward, focused and to the point for the most part, and actually seems to illustrate a strong sense of agreement about a future direction.
But, what you are referencing as a general negative dialog tone, is an indication of the challenge of changing a community culture. I have some experience in this kind of thing from working with teams of musicians, all with their preferences, strongly held opinions, and egos (in which what "they do" is overly connected to their sense of who "they are" i.e. their identity.)
It's in that frame of reference that changing the dynamics of a community culture takes some profoundly balanced leadership. From my experience it requires leadership by example, and it's not at all impossible to do.
A huge factor seems to be modeling the use of language, which often requires not having to be seen as "right." Points can be made more effectively when an idea is framed in terms that invite people into the discussion, with the hopes that a creative solution is indeed possible, and they won't be personally judged for it. Just human nature I think.
The first major block to this kind of culture change is the habitual framing of disagreements as personal., Even it appears that the personal criticism is completely intentional, If instead of reacting to it, one attempts in good faith to turn it around and find the point of agreement, and build from only the positive constructive dialog, the tone tends to become more open, a few others may begin to moderate their tone. Some won't ever moderate, but others will.
I see so far in this discussion most agree with giving all the distros a separate section. Some of the avid Puppy users even see merits of reconsidering things like Rox and JWM, whether they would personally want to adopt that approach or not. So there's my starting point, all the other insinuations (or perceived insinuations) I would be inclined to let roll off my back. Not that I wouldn't consider the merits of those insinuations first. If they had a point, I could indeed acknowledge it and "own" it as they say. I wouldn't need to "go to the mat" defending it, and that would be noticed by many. Change happens gradually, not all at once.
Since most agree with giving all the distros a separate section, I'd like to see a discussion of a good way to do that.
Next I would want to see people's ideas on getting the word out to more people who might be interested in these distros that I consider to be the most innovative set of installation and OS usuage tools available in the Linux world at present. It took many years of dedication without compensation for these distro structures to reach their current state, and they don't deserve to fade away.